hello? you're breaking up

after a long and complicated pseudo-relationship, a friend of mine decided to call it quits. part of his email went like this...
❝ it was not a pretty sight. it was not easy. the last quote of the 30 minute phone call was her saying "i was nice to you, and now you're dumping me! you're an asshole!" (click) (hangs up the phone). ❞

damn.

breaking up sucks. doesn't matter which side you're on... breaker or breakee. at one point, both (or one) feel a certain way and then, at some other point... one person (or both), don't.

fuck! we've all been there.

some people say that it gets easier every time, like you build up some sort of tolerance or immunity. some people say there's a formula for getting over it... something like one week for every three months you've been dating. i think it's different every time and it's never easy, unless you are a heartless demon bastard.

there's one thing good about every break up. you learn a little more about yourself, about what you're looking for, and what you definitely don't want. and you're that much closer to finding the last person you'll ever fall in love with...

...until the next one.

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